“kids having kids”, “Probably living on benefits”, “How did that happen?”, “Don’t you want to enjoy life?”… These are just some of the comments that have been directed at me or asked to me but are common across most young parents. Within this blog I am going to explain how I dealt and still to […]
Read More Blog #7 -perceptionIt’s a sunny Tuesday late morning in July 2020, I’m working from home. The ITV show “This Morning” was on the tv in the background, someone had just won a few grand playing “Spin The Wheel”.. then suddenly I heard a shriek upstairs.. Lotty: “Oh my god…” Me: “What?” Lotty: “Ohhhhh my god”. Lotty thunders […]
Read More Blog #5 – It’s a boy!The best/ worst day of my life… the birth of my daughter from my point of view. I struggle thinking too much about this time, thinking back I see the memorise with a hazy filter, a whisky coloured nightmare. The memory is clouded by heat, pain, exhaustion.. but then things get brighter and clearer. Friday […]
Read More Blog #3 – The LabourMy senses tingle as the sea wind run’s through me, the sound of the waves calmly washing onto shore. No one in mind. No stress. Just me and the ocean. Me and the world. Me and the “James… I’m pregnant! I don’t know what to do”… oh fuck. At 11:23 on a Tuesday, I was […]
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